The Wedding Countdown has truly begun now. This Saturday Arthur has her first bridal shower, for BF's side of the family and friends, then the next Saturday is her shower for our side of the family and friends, and then the following Saturday is her and BF's 'Couples' shower, and then the next week is the shower from her friends at work.
I have finally found the dress I am wearing at the wedding. It needs some slight alterations, which may or may not happen. Arthur has to try on her gown again next week to see what alterations are needed. I need to call the bridal shop and inquire into the delivery of the brides maids dresses. Hubster wants a new suit so we've got to find time to go suit shopping. Courage and Krumm have got to get their shoes.
Arthur still has to make another trip to the bridal shop to pick out a veil and shoes.
Arthur and BF got their engagement session photos e-album today. Now they have to decide which picture to publish in the news papers and have framed for the wedding.
Arthur, myself, BF and BF's parents have really worked hard to make this a nice wedding...on a shoestring budget. For reasons I won't mention, we have really had to tighten the belt and spread things thin as possible and make do and cut corners. If you ever need to plan a wedding on a very skinny budget, ask us for some tips! Most everyone we have talked to have stated that their wedding, or their son, daughter or grandchild's wedding
started at $25,000.00. I can tell you this, if we had 1/2 that amount to spend, we would have been happy. We have had to really scrimp, but I truly believe this is going to be a beautiful wedding. Mostly, because everyone involved has really poured their hearts into making this a special day for Arthur and BF. Here are some ways we have saved:
*Bought the wedding gown "off the rack". Literally. She chose a dress off the rack at Formally Yours in Lilburn and the lady said if we took THAT dress and didn't order it to be made, we would receive a nice discount. The dress Arthur chose fit her, but had a stain on the back where a rack had rolled over the train. But that was remedied with special cleaners and work from the expert seamstress employed by the bridal shop. How many brides do you know who are that EASY GOING??????????? Most brides turn into BRIDEZILLA and insist on a made to order gown. This has been my biggest bragging point for Arthur. Some dresses she tried on were upward of $5,000.00 but Arthur's was only about 1/5 of that with the discounts we received. She chose the most beautiful dress in the store without looking at price tags, and we were blessed that it was in our budget and fit! Of course now that she has lost close to 40lbs it may have to be altered!
*Arthur's sister made the Wedding Invitations in her spare time and they turned out beautiful!
*We have purchased a lot of the items such as the toast glasses, cake knife and server, wedding favors at discount stores.
*Arthur and BF agreed on a very reasonable package from the photographer and stated if they desired a package upgrade they would pay the difference themselves.
*The couple have been shopping for a good deal on a cruise for their honeymoon and have saved and scrimped to pay for it themselves.
*They agreed on a small number of bridesmaids and groomsmen in order to save $$$.
*Arthur took BF's mother's advise to use a bakery and florist that BF's mother is acquainted with and used for her daughter's wedding, therefore getting very good prices for both!
*The couple agreed to pass on an expensive reception, instead opting to have it in the church fellowship hall. BF's denomination does not allow for dancing or alcohol, so why did we need a big dance floor or bar??? Also, BF's church family are taking care of the food at the reception. What a blessing!
*BF's mother is personally catering the wedding rehearsal, again being held at the church.
*They are being married in BF's church and his grandfather will officiate. More savings!
These are only a few ways we have kept the wedding budget very low. Some things you can't scrimp on though. The night before the wedding our family has rented a bed and breakfast all for ourselves. $$$$. The morning of the wedding the bride and bridesmaids are getting the royal treatment from a salon owner and her assistants. $$$$. We still have to purchase the jewelry for the bride and bridesmaids. $$$$ ????.
To sum it up, the three things I think typically cost the most, the gown, the photographer and the reception, have all been secured on our little budget, and will be sufficient, and will make Arthur and BF happy.
That's all that matters.
